I'm former military and I've heard a lot of stories like the bar story, hell, I've seen it a few times. It's not the story that gives me the willies, it's how it's told... with a complete disconnect of what the Uey is all about: having fun, in games and forums, while showing a modicum of respect for fellow Ueys... some of whom are women.
Maybe I'm just getting old and have less tolerance than I did when I was younger, but I don't see this ending well.
It's possible the story(s) were juiced up a bit for entertainment value, which would be okay, but the amount of juice and the direction the story went says a lot. It says he thinks that is what is cool and acceptable here. I hope he's wrong.